Extolling the Virtues of Fathers – Past & Present
I’ve heard it said that
it is much easier to become a father than to be one. Scientifically speaking, this is true. It is also true that the words and
lessons handed down to us by our fathers as quiet whispers in the privacy of
our homes, become much more than that when they, by posterity, are passed
through the sieve of generations. On this Father’s Day we celebrate honoring
fathers and fatherhood, and the influence they have had on us. For members of the Rockfish Chapter
D.A.R., (Daughters of the American Revolution) Father’s Day holds sway over
them, but not necessarily for the reasons you may think. I will use a quote by
Richard Llewellyn from his 1939 novel How Green Was My Valley to illustrate.
I
saw behind me those who had gone, and before me those who are to come. I
looked
back and saw my father, and his father, and all our fathers, and in front to see
my son, and his son, and the sons upon sons beyond. And their eyes were my eyes.
It is valuable to
have a sense of history in regards to our forefathers. It gives us a record of
perspective through life’s events, situations, and consequences thereof. It can
help us make wiser choices and mold us if we learn from the successes and
failures of those who have gone before.
Being a member of
the Daughters of the American Revolution means you have a proven lineal descent
from a patriot of the American Revolution. This means most members have a
great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-grandfather who fought in the
Revolutionary War. Now that’s a lot of history to digest and quite a list of
fathers who lived their lives and died with plenty of advise and counsel to
bequeath to us. If only we could listen, what would we hear? Perhaps the following would echo back
through the ages.
Every
child in America should be acquainted with his own country. He should read
books that furnish him with ideas that will be useful to him in life and practice.
As soon as he opens his lips, he should rehearse the history of his own country.
(Noah Webster, On the Education of Youth in America, 1788)
There are several
theories behind when and where Father’s Day originated. One thing is for
certain; fathers have been around for thousands of years inculcating, we, their
children, with everything from how to till a field to how to throw a knuckle
ball. Will we remember the lessons
learned from our fathers and pass them down to our children and they to their
children? Or, as time has a way of so often doing, will we lose track of what
Great-Grandpa Cole imparted to Grandpa Earl on his knee one wintry morning…lost
forever to the dusty annals? Time passes at breakneck speed. Will the lessons learned, the
sentiments expressed, the virtues extolled, be relinquished to digitized pages
on a computer or will we hold our forefathers words in high esteem. Only our
great-grandsons and daughters will tell. I leave you with this quote from a
father not so long ago.
Freedom
is never more than one generation away from extinction. We didn't pass it
to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and
handed on
for them to do the same, or one day we will spend our sunset years telling our children
and our children's children what it was once like in the United States where
men were free. (1961- Ronald Reagan)
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